What happens before the first date

There are so many articles about first date ideas on the Internet nowadays, but a lot of men are asking me, “Those ideas are amazing, but dating is tough, and I can’t even get a date. Could you please tell me exactly how to meet women and get the first date?” In this blog article, I’ll show you how to meet women socially and set up a date quickly.

**Combine offline dating with online dating to maximize your chance of meeting someone suitable.**

If you’ve joined an online dating website which is a highly effective and efficient way to meet women, you can still do some offline dating to hone your social skills and maximize your chance of meeting the right person because you need options while looking for love.

Indeed, if you choose one out of one option, that’s probably a pretty lousy choice. But if you have abundance, you can choose the best candidate out of many options. Scarcity is far away from you!

Body language is a part of sub-communication.

Before you approach a woman at a venue, you have to pay attention to your own body language because chances are women have already noticed you before you start conversations with them.

Ideally, you should have an engaging conversation with your friend at the party before approaching women because you don’t want to look like a lonely and needy guy at the venue.

Then you may walk slowly and make eye contact with everyone you see. If a woman holds the eye contact with you, you raise your glass and smile. When she reciprocates, you know you can approach her and start a conversation. If she is hanging out with her friends at the venue, you have to include her friends in the conversation as well. Make sure she is attracted to you and her friends like you (they have to strongly believe that you are a good person).

If the background music is loud and she enjoys the interesting conversation with you, you would be well-advised to change the venue by saying something like, “I really don’t like this song. Let’s go to XYZ restaurant nearby for something delicious to eat.” Then you say this to her friends, “We’ll be back in half an hour.”

Now you have an instant date with her. If you would like to have a proper first date with this lady, you must get a solid phone number. Then you’ll be able to set up a proper date with her.